离职面谈:说清原因,婉拒挽留,安排好交接
点「看一看」,Rachel 和 Arjun 就在这里把这一场演一遍;轮到你开口的 5 个地方会停下来,给你看要说的意思和三种说法。
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这一场在哪里,发生了什么?
周四下午 3 点,西雅图一家软件公司的小会议室,离职面谈(下周五是你最后一天)
你在这家软件公司做了三年,已经签了新公司的 offer,下周五是最后一天。今天 HR 业务伙伴 Rachel 跟你做离职面谈,想听真实原因;你的直属经理 Arjun 也临时加入,有点舍不得,还可能当场开条件留你。
和谁对话?
- Rachel
- 美国口音。HR 业务伙伴,温和专业,边听边认真记录
- Arjun
- 印度口音。直属经理,有点失落,想再争取一下
你要做到什么?
真诚感谢三年的培养和带支付项目的机会;说清离开的主要原因(成长和管理岗);不抱怨地提一点建设性意见;礼貌但坚定地拒绝加薪挽留;把交接安排说具体:周三前写完交接文档,最后一周带新同事过代码,离职后两周内可以发邮件问你。
这一场轮到你开口 5 次:
- 表达感谢
- 说明原因
- 建设性意见
- 婉拒挽留
- 安排交接
全文:这一场怎么说?
中英对照,不用注册。每一句都能点「听」,录音就是 App 里这一场的录音,只有角色的台词。轮到你的地方,写着你想说的意思、三种说法和值得记住的说法:能说清是短句,先保证对方听懂;自然是同事平时会说的;高密度更紧凑、信息更多。
Hi Thanks for making time. This is just a short exit interview, nothing formal. Arjun asked to join, if that's okay.
你好谢谢你抽时间。这只是一个简短的离职面谈,不用太正式。Arjun 说想一起参加,可以吗?
听懂:exit interview 离职面谈 · nothing formal 不用太正式
I hope you don't mind me joining. It's been a great three years with you. How do you feel, looking back?
希望你不介意我也来。和你共事这三年很棒。回头看,你有什么感受?
听懂:don't mind me joining 不介意我加入 · looking back 回头看
轮到你:表达感谢
真诚感谢公司三年的培养,特别提到带支付项目的机会。
你想说的意思:真的很感谢这三年公司对我的培养,我成长了很多,特别是让我负责支付项目,这对我意义很大。
- 能说清Thank you both. I learned a lot here in three years. Leading the payments project meant a lot to me.
- 自然Honestly, I'm really grateful for these three years. I've grown a lot here, especially from leading the payments project. It meant a lot to me.
- 高密度Honestly, I'm really grateful for the last three years. I've grown a lot here, and being trusted with the payments project meant a lot to me.
| 值得记住的说法 | 中文 |
|---|---|
| I'm really grateful for … | 我很感激……比 thank you for 更真诚 |
| I've grown a lot here | 我在这里成长了很多 |
| being trusted with … | 被信任去负责……感谢机会时很得体 |
| meant a lot to me | 对我意义很大 |
That project was tough, and you handled it really well. I'm glad it helped you grow.
那个项目很难,你处理得非常好。很高兴它让你有所成长。
听懂:tough 难搞的、不容易的 · handled it really well 处理得很好
So, can you tell us the main reason you decided to leave? We really want the honest answer.
那么,能说说你决定离开的主要原因吗?我们很想听真实的想法。
听懂:the main reason 主要原因 · the honest answer 真实的回答
轮到你:说明原因
说清主要原因:新职位能带 5 人团队,这里两年内没有管理岗空缺。
你想说的意思:主要是为了成长。新职位可以带一个 5 人团队,而这里两年内都没有管理岗的空缺。
- 能说清Mainly it's about growth. The new role lets me manage a team of five. Here, there's no manager opening for two years.
- 自然Mainly it comes down to growth. The new role lets me manage a team of five, and I don't see a manager opening here in the next two years.
- 高密度Mainly it comes down to growth. The new role means managing a team of five, and realistically there's no manager opening here in the next two years.
| 值得记住的说法 | 中文 |
|---|---|
| it comes down to … | 归根结底是……说主要原因很自然 |
| manage a team of five | 管理一个五人团队 |
| a manager opening | 管理岗空缺opening=空出来的职位 |
| in the next two years | 未来两年内 |
That makes sense, and it's a fair reason. Is there anything about the team or the hours you'd like us to know?
可以理解,这个原因很合理。关于团队或工作时间,有没有什么想让我们知道的?
听懂:a fair reason 合理的原因 · the hours 工作时间、工时
轮到你:建设性意见
不抱怨地提出意见:最近半年连续加班、需求变动太频繁,团队压力很大。
你想说的意思:如果可以坦白说一点:最近半年一直加班,需求又老在变,整个团队压力很大。
- 能说清One thing. We worked overtime a lot in the last six months. The requirements kept changing. The team felt a lot of pressure.
- 自然If I can be honest, one thing: we've done a lot of overtime in the last six months, and the requirements kept changing. The team's been under a lot of pressure.
- 高密度If I can be honest, one thing: six months of back-to-back overtime, plus requirements that kept changing, have put the team under a lot of pressure.
| 值得记住的说法 | 中文 |
|---|---|
| If I can be honest, … | 如果可以坦白说……提意见前的缓冲,显得不是在抱怨 |
| back-to-back overtime | 连续不断的加班back-to-back=一个接一个 |
| kept changing | 一直在变 |
| under a lot of pressure | 压力很大 |
That's fair. I know the last few months were hard, and I'll take that to leadership.
说得对。我知道最近几个月很辛苦,我会把这个反馈给管理层。
听懂:That's fair 说得有道理 · take that to leadership 把这个反映给管理层
But listen, I don't want to lose you. I can offer a ten percent raise, starting next month. Would you think about staying?
不过我真不想失去你。我可以给你加薪 10%,下个月开始。你愿意考虑留下来吗?
听懂:a ten percent raise 加薪百分之十 · think about staying 考虑留下
轮到你:婉拒挽留
感谢加薪提议,但说明已经签了新公司的 offer,决定不会改。
你想说的意思:真的很感谢,这对我意义很大。但我已经签了新公司的 offer,也已经下定决心了,我会坚持这个决定。
- 能说清Thank you, Arjun. I really appreciate it. But I already signed the offer. I will stick with my decision.
- 自然I really appreciate that, Arjun. But I've already signed the offer with the new company, so I'll stick with my decision.
- 高密度I really appreciate that, Arjun, it means a lot. But I've already signed the offer, and I've made up my mind, so I'll stick with my decision.
| 值得记住的说法 | 中文 |
|---|---|
| I really appreciate that | 真的很感谢先感谢再拒绝,更礼貌 |
| I've already signed the offer | 我已经签了 offer |
| I've made up my mind | 我已经下定决心了 |
| stick with my decision | 坚持我的决定比 I won't change 柔和 |
Okay. I had to try. I respect that, and the door's always open for you.
好吧,我总得试一试。我尊重你的决定,这里随时欢迎你回来。
听懂:I had to try 我总得试一下 · the door's always open 随时欢迎回来
Thank you both. Last thing: your last day is next Friday. What's your plan for the handover?
谢谢两位。最后一件事:你下周五最后一天上班。交接你打算怎么安排?
听懂:last day 最后工作日 · handover 工作交接
轮到你:安排交接
说清交接安排:周三前写完交接文档,最后一周带新同事过代码,离职后两周内可以发邮件问你。
你想说的意思:交接文档我周三前写完,最后一周带新同事把代码过一遍。离职后两周内有问题都可以发邮件问我。
- 能说清I'll finish the handover doc by Wednesday. In my last week, I'll walk the new colleague through the code. After I leave, email me for two weeks.
- 自然I'll have the handover doc done by Wednesday. In my last week, I'll walk the new colleague through the code. And for two weeks after I leave, feel free to email me.
- 高密度I'll have the handover doc wrapped up by Wednesday, then walk the new colleague through the code in my last week. For two weeks after I leave, feel free to email me with any questions.
| 值得记住的说法 | 中文 |
|---|---|
| wrapped up by … | 在……之前收尾做完比 finished 更口语 |
| walk … through the code | 带……过一遍代码walk sb through=一步步带人看 |
| for two weeks after I leave | 离职后两周内 |
| feel free to email me | 随时可以发邮件给我主动提供帮助的客气说法 |
That's very generous, thank you. I'll put it all in my notes, and HR will email you the usual leaving information.
你真周到,谢谢。我都会记下来,HR 也会把常规的离职信息发邮件给你。
听懂:generous 大方、周到 · the usual leaving information 常规的离职信息
We'll really miss you. Let's have a team lunch before you go, okay?
我们会很想你的。走之前咱们组一起吃个午饭吧,好吗?
听懂:miss you 想念你 · before you go 你走之前
没听清、卡住时怎么接?
这一场准备的救场的话:没听清、一时想不起词,先用一句接住,再想内容。
| 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|
| Sorry, could you say that again? | 抱歉,能再说一遍吗 |
| Let me think about how to put this. | 我想一下怎么说 |
| Just to make sure I understand, … | 确认一下我理解得对不对…… |
| Can I come back to that in a minute? | 这个我等会儿再说可以吗 |
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